Greetings Queen Marisa from Laura and Henry in Sydney, Australia,
About six years ago my husband started asking me for various things in the bedroom. The best I can describe them would be that they were kinks.
He wanted to role play where I was the dominant partner. He wanted to experience chastity where I was his key holder and we found a device (not easy!) and I held the key for one to two weeks at a time. I found I liked that experience. I liked control from it and especially the change I saw in him. Dildo's and vibrators became the norm for intimacy while he was locked. That role play continued for for years until last year he asked to watch me with a male escort. I tried it but I didn't let him watch. It was the first time since we were married that I had sex outside the marriage. It really was amazing. So good that I was worried and started seeing a therapist who intoned that there was something wrong with me and I needed to reset and work through my issues. I struggled with those sessions. How on earth could I be the one that was broken? We were married for over 16 years and had two kids! He asked me to do it! And it was great! When I said that to her she told me she could no longer help as I was involved in a BDSM sub culture. I was basically rejected by a "so called" educated professional.
I felt lost. I started searching google, and everywhere else, for information about how to deal with the fact that I liked the control over Henry, that I liked that time with an escort, .. really that I could have my own will when it came to the bedroom and the relationship. Through that exploration, and talking with Henry, we discovered he had a cuckold fetish and was submissive to female partners. We walked back through several of his girlfriends. We spoke at length about the strict relationship he had with his Mother. I also found Queen Marisa's books that described the world of Female Lead Relationships. Better yet it described how to establish and develop a healthy Female Led Relationship. Those books helped me to understand why I felt so comfortable in that paradigm and why Henry accepted it so easily. The books resonated with me. It made me realize that I was not broken, I am not broken! Sure, I'm not mainstream, but definitely not broken! I can give myself permission to enjoy great sex with an escort, with another man, a Bull!
Over the last 14 months we have modified our relationship, house, and family to be female led, and through that my Henry has become a much better husband, a committed partner, and a brilliant parent to our kids. It started with enacting three key items. Full time and permanent chastity, female led worship and oral, and honoring the Divine Feminine. It was like Henry needed to take a submissive role and I had to lead him. It is simply who he is. A smart and caring man, but a submissive in a relationship.
Following the ideas in the Love and Obey series of books I have created a wonderful intimate female led relationship with Henry. Much better than our relationship was ever was before. We established a FLR agreement and I have found several sex partners to provide the physical satisfaction I enjoy, which Henry can't provide, while Henry lavishes me with the love, the compassion, and support as my husband. There really is nothing better than first having an amazing dinner with your husband, and then after coming home from your Bull's place, you snuggle on the couch with your life partner. It is empowering as it recognizes the power we, as women, have in the world and what we can achieve. My self confidence has blossomed and it has resulted in promotions at work. Henry's career has also developed as he is committed to all the best things for us as a family setting aside the patriarchal norms of his ego.
I cannot see going away from our Female Led Relationship. Was it easy to get here? No. But it's a reward for the bold woman. The one who is willing for search herself and her desires honestly and understand her husband for what he is and then discuss it with him. Men, if you are reading this and it resonates with you, buy your wife "Love and Obey". Put on your big-boy panties and admit what you desire. Ladies, If you are reading this, ask yourself why! Is it because you sense that something just isn't right in your relationship or you have realized your relationship needs to be different? Challenge yourself to lead? We make great leaders! Now take control!
XX Queen Laura
Greetings Queen Marisa from Michael and Susan from London, England,
I was going to start by saying our FLR began about two years ago but in truth it probably began when Susan and I first started dating over five years ago, because I knew from the start that not only was she ‘the one for me’ but also that she was so much better than me in many respects.
At the time, she was studying to become a qualified accountant while I was starting my career in academia as a college lecturer. She had a different kind of intelligence from mine, more analytical and more thorough. She was also much better at summing up a situation and then making a decision whereas I would spend days, weeks even, weighing the different options and then I’d still find it difficult to come to a conclusion.
However, although we were quite different in many respects, we shared a lot of the same views on the world and life and we always felt very comfortable with each other. So it wasn’t very long before we decided to get married and set up home together. We started with the usual patriarchal model for our relationship because that was what was expected of us, but even then I recognized that it made sense, given her occupation, to manage the family finances and if we had to engage builders to do some work on the house, for example, it was usually Susan that managed them. Nonetheless, whenever there was a form to fill in asking who was the head of the household, we would both always enter my name. So, we followed the usual path and a sort of routine was established that she did most of the household chores and still managed to progress in her career, while I worked long hours to further my career with only rather mediocre results.
Susan always had a high sex drive but in the early days that wasn’t an issue because, being a young man in love with my wife, my own sex drive was pretty high too. Once she’d qualified and we felt we were financially pretty secure, we decided to start a family and in the space of not much more than a couple of years we had two happy healthy babies. It was after the birth of our second child that Susan suffered several months of depression during which the physical side of our marriage became almost non-existent but I tried to understand the problems she was having and as well as taking on more of the household tasks, I tried to give her some space and time to recover her spirits. I suppose it was during this period that my own libido dipped.
Eventually Susan came out of her depression and quite suddenly her sex drive recovered and seemed to become more powerful than ever and I was finding it difficult to keep up with her. For several months, things became quite difficult between us and she became a bit irritable and impatient with my tendency to put things off and prevaricate. In retrospect, I’m sure that sexual frustration played a substantial part in this. Around this time, one of her friends lent her a couple of books by Marisa Rudder, ‘Love and Obey’ and ‘Real Men Worship Women’ and these had a significant impact on her thinking and soon after on our relationship.
She asked me to read them as well and then said she’d like to discuss the concepts that Ms Rudder was promoting. I think it gave her a framework within which to look at her own ideas about female superiority and how, by accepting it and acknowledging it, we could transform our relationship into something that would make us both happier. As I’ve said, I’d always recognized that Susan was far better at many things than I was and particularly her management and organizing skills. Knowing, too, that she had become unhappy and frustrated, I happily went along with the suggestion that we try a Female Led Relationship to see how it went. We didn’t immediately change everything but gradually introduced features of a FLR, but the foundation that was laid down from the start was that she took the lead and that her happiness came first (for a change! as she would say), on the basis of ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’.
To begin with, we changed the balance of responsibilities around the house and with the children. Given that Susan had greater earning potential than me if she could devote more time to her job, I agreed to take on most of the jobs around the house while the childcare was shared out 50-50. Because she was so well organized, she would draw up a weekly schedule of tasks which then I, for the most part, was responsible for implementing, while she would ask for updates and send reminders. I suddenly felt rather like a servant but I couldn’t deny that everything ran much more smoothly and efficiently.
Having got the household and childcare running smoothly, she then turned her attention to our sexual relations. I’d been afraid she would raise this at some point and did feel quite anxious that I wasn’t providing her with sufficient pleasure and stimulation. However, I hadn’t at all reckoned on what she would suggest, which was that she wanted to have the freedom to have other partners. I have to confess that I was really upset at first thinking this was perhaps the first step towards separation and divorce. But she was happy to reassure me on that point and said that she simply wanted more than I was able to provide. I then wondered whether this had been the ultimate aim of setting a FLR all along, even though there was no mention of it in the books we’d read. [At that point Ms. Rudder’s book ‘Cuckolding’ hadn’t yet been published]. Susan insisted, however, that it was perfectly consistent with the principle of prioritizing female happiness. Besides, as she pointed out, there was no point in trying to ignore the issue and hope it will go away; much better to face up to it and try to deal with it in a sensible and grown-up way. Eventually, she persuaded me that it would be good for both of us by providing her with greater sexual gratification while stimulating my own libido through a bit of healthy competition! Finally, I agreed, even though quite reluctantly, because it didn’t seem fair to deny her what she clearly needed to be happy.
Over the following several months, Susan dated several men, some through internet dating sites, some as men she met indirectly through work, and although my pride was hurt at first, I could see how much she enjoyed and benefited from the attention of other men. I wasn’t quite sure whether it was actually the sex or the flirting and sense of anticipation when she was getting ready to go out on a date, but in any case, her confidence and self-assurance grew and she became ever more comfortable with her leadership role in our relationship, which she always insisted was the most important thing in her life. I could only watch and admire her development. Nonetheless, my conventional upbringing meant I still had pangs of jealousy from time to time, the more so after she formed a more settled, longer-term relationship with a new boyfriend about a year ago. Then in early summer, Marisa Rudder released her new book on ‘Cuckolding’ which both of us read immediately and which taught me, in particular, a great deal including the fact that cuckolding was in fact far from uncommon and that many couples were increasingly drawn to that lifestyle and finally that, so long as it was handled properly and the husband recognized his wife’s sexual superiority and needs, then it could actually bring them closer together and strengthen their marriage. When I’d read the book, it felt as though a burden of expectation had been lifted from my shoulders. I could at last relax and accept the situation. With the pressure to perform taken off me, I could concentrate on simply making sure Susan was happy and contented and our own sexual relationship was mutually satisfying. To that end Susan also suggested that I read another of Ms Rudder’s books called ‘Oral Sex for Women’ which I found fascinating as I realized that until then I had had so little real and detailed knowledge of women’s anatomy (despite fathering two children!) or their sexual preferences. Needless to say, Susan likes to give me plenty of opportunity to develop my skills in that regard.
So, how has a Female Led Relationship worked out for us? I know that my happiness is tied inextricably to Susan’s and that having her take the lead in our relationship has meant greater levels of contentment for both of us. I recognize that she is superior to me in many ways and so it’s surely sensible for her to be the decision-maker and leader in our marriage and for me to provide her with whatever support I can. But what about the ‘cuckolding’? I’ve read comments on some social media sites that suggest if one partner has the right to have sex outside the relationship, then the other should have the same freedom, but I’ve never felt the need for other women. I can’t speak for all couples, but I know that Susan has a much higher sex drive than I have and while she can always provide me with all the sexual pleasure I need, she needs more stimulation and gratification than I can provide for her. So, it seems to me that, if one can get rid of old conventional ways of thinking, then cuckolding is a sensible and healthy way to address an imbalance of libidos between a wife and her husband. In any case, it has certainly made our sex life more interesting and it seems Susan was right that my own sex drive has increased as a result of the competition. She once said to me, only half in jest, that I should treat her as a goddess and her vulva as a temple at which more than one can worship. I think that sums up my thinking nowadays.
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Thank you for everything,
Michael & Susan
Greetings Queen Marisa from Istanbul, Turkey,
We are a couple. He is, Ilyas, 45 years old and I am, Fulya, 35 years old. From the first day we met, there was always a power struggle between Ilyas and I. Before we met, we were both dominant characters in our separate lives, and in the beginning of our relationship we were constantly fighting and struggling to see who would be in charge.
At the time, she was studying to become a qualified accountant while I was starting my career in academia as a college lecturer. She had a different kind of intelligence from mine, more analytical and more thorough. She was also much better at summing up a situation and then making a decision whereas I would spend days, weeks even, weighing the different options and then I’d still find it difficult to come to a conclusion.
However, although we were quite different in many respects, we shared a lot of the same views on the world and life and we always felt very comfortable with each other. So it wasn’t very long before we decided to get married and set up home together. We started with the usual patriarchal model for our relationship because that was what was expected of us, but even then I recognized that it made sense, given her occupation, to manage the family finances and if we had to engage builders to do some work on the house, for example, it was usually Susan that managed them. Nonetheless, whenever there was a form to fill in asking who was the head of the household, we would both always enter my name. So, we followed the usual path and a sort of routine was established that she did most of the household chores and still managed to progress in her career, while I worked long hours to further my career with only rather mediocre results.
Susan always had a high sex drive but in the early days that wasn’t an issue because, being a young man in love with my wife, my own sex drive was pretty high too. Once she’d qualified and we felt we were financially pretty secure, we decided to start a family and in the space of not much more than a couple of years we had two happy healthy babies. It was after the birth of our second child that Susan suffered several months of depression during which the physical side of our marriage became almost non-existent but I tried to understand the problems she was having and as well as taking on more of the household tasks, I tried to give her some space and time to recover her spirits. I suppose it was during this period that my own libido dipped.
Eventually Susan came out of her depression and quite suddenly her sex drive recovered and seemed to become more powerful than ever and I was finding it difficult to keep up with her. For several months, things became quite difficult between us and she became a bit irritable and impatient with my tendency to put things off and prevaricate. In retrospect, I’m sure that sexual frustration played a substantial part in this. Around this time, one of her friends lent her a couple of books by Marisa Rudder, ‘Love and Obey’ and ‘Real Men Worship Women’ and these had a significant impact on her thinking and soon after on our relationship.
She asked me to read them as well and then said she’d like to discuss the concepts that Ms Rudder was promoting. I think it gave her a framework within which to look at her own ideas about female superiority and how, by accepting it and acknowledging it, we could transform our relationship into something that would make us both happier. As I’ve said, I’d always recognized that Susan was far better at many things than I was and particularly her management and organizing skills. Knowing, too, that she had become unhappy and frustrated, I happily went along with the suggestion that we try a Female Led Relationship to see how it went. We didn’t immediately change everything but gradually introduced features of a FLR, but the foundation that was laid down from the start was that she took the lead and that her happiness came first (for a change! as she would say), on the basis of ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’.
To begin with, we changed the balance of responsibilities around the house and with the children. Given that Susan had greater earning potential than me if she could devote more time to her job, I agreed to take on most of the jobs around the house while the childcare was shared out 50-50. Because she was so well organized, she would draw up a weekly schedule of tasks which then I, for the most part, was responsible for implementing, while she would ask for updates and send reminders. I suddenly felt rather like a servant but I couldn’t deny that everything ran much more smoothly and efficiently.
Having got the household and childcare running smoothly, she then turned her attention to our sexual relations. I’d been afraid she would raise this at some point and did feel quite anxious that I wasn’t providing her with sufficient pleasure and stimulation. However, I hadn’t at all reckoned on what she would suggest, which was that she wanted to have the freedom to have other partners. I have to confess that I was really upset at first thinking this was perhaps the first step towards separation and divorce. But she was happy to reassure me on that point and said that she simply wanted more than I was able to provide. I then wondered whether this had been the ultimate aim of setting a FLR all along, even though there was no mention of it in the books we’d read. [At that point Ms. Rudder’s book ‘Cuckolding’ hadn’t yet been published]. Susan insisted, however, that it was perfectly consistent with the principle of prioritizing female happiness. Besides, as she pointed out, there was no point in trying to ignore the issue and hope it will go away; much better to face up to it and try to deal with it in a sensible and grown-up way. Eventually, she persuaded me that it would be good for both of us by providing her with greater sexual gratification while stimulating my own libido through a bit of healthy competition! Finally, I agreed, even though quite reluctantly, because it didn’t seem fair to deny her what she clearly needed to be happy.
Over the following several months, Susan dated several men, some through internet dating sites, some as men she met indirectly through work, and although my pride was hurt at first, I could see how much she enjoyed and benefited from the attention of other men. I wasn’t quite sure whether it was actually the sex or the flirting and sense of anticipation when she was getting ready to go out on a date, but in any case, her confidence and self-assurance grew and she became ever more comfortable with her leadership role in our relationship, which she always insisted was the most important thing in her life. I could only watch and admire her development. Nonetheless, my conventional upbringing meant I still had pangs of jealousy from time to time, the more so after she formed a more settled, longer-term relationship with a new boyfriend about a year ago. Then in early summer, Marisa Rudder released her new book on ‘Cuckolding’ which both of us read immediately and which taught me, in particular, a great deal including the fact that cuckolding was in fact far from uncommon and that many couples were increasingly drawn to that lifestyle and finally that, so long as it was handled properly and the husband recognized his wife’s sexual superiority and needs, then it could actually bring them closer together and strengthen their marriage. When I’d read the book, it felt as though a burden of expectation had been lifted from my shoulders. I could at last relax and accept the situation. With the pressure to perform taken off me, I could concentrate on simply making sure Susan was happy and contented and our own sexual relationship was mutually satisfying. To that end Susan also suggested that I read another of Ms Rudder’s books called ‘Oral Sex for Women’ which I found fascinating as I realized that until then I had had so little real and detailed knowledge of women’s anatomy (despite fathering two children!) or their sexual preferences. Needless to say, Susan likes to give me plenty of opportunity to develop my skills in that regard.
So, how has a Female Led Relationship worked out for us? I know that my happiness is tied inextricably to Susan’s and that having her take the lead in our relationship has meant greater levels of contentment for both of us. I recognize that she is superior to me in many ways and so it’s surely sensible for her to be the decision-maker and leader in our marriage and for me to provide her with whatever support I can. But what about the ‘cuckolding’? I’ve read comments on some social media sites that suggest if one partner has the right to have sex outside the relationship, then the other should have the same freedom, but I’ve never felt the need for other women. I can’t speak for all couples, but I know that Susan has a much higher sex drive than I have and while she can always provide me with all the sexual pleasure I need, she needs more stimulation and gratification than I can provide for her. So, it seems to me that, if one can get rid of old conventional ways of thinking, then cuckolding is a sensible and healthy way to address an imbalance of libidos between a wife and her husband. In any case, it has certainly made our sex life more interesting and it seems Susan was right that my own sex drive has increased as a result of the competition. She once said to me, only half in jest, that I should treat her as a goddess and her vulva as a temple at which more than one can worship. I think that sums up my thinking nowadays.
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Thank you for everything,
Michael & Susan
I found your books online and I ordered Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women. After reading Love & Obey, I finally told Ilyas that this relationship will not work out for us with this constant fighting and power struggle. I told him that I want to live in a female led relationship and that he had to give up his dominant attitude. I made Ilyas read Real Men Worship Women. Once he did, his mind was opened up to a female led lifestyle. I told him that he must recognize me as his superior, he must submit himself to my dominant female authority. He accepted his submission to me because he loved me and didn't want to lose me. From that time forward, I took control of our relationship. He was no longer arguing or disobeying my commands. Today, he obeys every word I say. Occasionally, when he did disrespect or disobey me, I started to punish him. He is punished whenever his behavior does not satisfy me. I read your book Spanking and learned about disciplining men. Sometimes his beatings are severe, because I am physically stronger than him. But believe me, whenever he receives a serious beating, he deserves it. We do not see the Love & Obey female led way of life as fantasy. As we now read your new book Turning Point, responsibility in all areas is now mine and he is my obedient male servant. He quit his job because I didn't want him to work. I wanted him to devote all his time to serving me and caring for our home. He does all the housework. After reading your book Cuckolding, I have also started cuckolding him now. I have a rich, dominant and powerful lover (Bull). He helps me meet all of our needs for money, livelihood and, of course, my luxury. I am now working successfully in my lover's company, and he pays me very well. All responsibilities, including paying the bills, belong to me. Ilyas is also very happy. He says he is very relieved that he has no responsibility. I rarely have sex with him anymore, but he's not complaining. Ilyas is amazing when it comes to oral sex, so now oral sex is the only sex I have with Ilyas. I enjoy penetrative sex only with my bull. Since our relationship in a female led life has now reached a very advanced level. I suggest to new people that they need to read your entire series of female led relationship books and must live this lifestyle for a while before they even consider moving to the level we now live. But I can say your Love & Obey Female Led Relationship Book Series are the “holy books” of the female led lifestyle. Some people love our lifestyle, other people don’t agree with us at all, but Ilyas and I are both happy. I am his superior and he knows it, so he is happy with my loving authority over him and his life as my male servant.
Thank you Queen Marisa for showing us the way.
Fulya (and Ilyas)
Greetings from Norway from Oddmund and Hanne. We have been married for 25 years in a typical male-led marriage, now we have switched to a Female Led Marriage.
I have been a martial arts practitioner for many years and worked in the security industry. Now I have found My way into a female-led marriage. So most people who know me will say I am an Alpha male who is a leader in my social circle and work. Nevertheless, I have always had submissive feelings towards all ladies and submissive desires when it comes to my wife Hanne.
A little over a year ago, I finally admitted to myself and my wife that I really want to submit to her completely. After searching the web, I came across a very strong and knowledgeable video channel with a guide to loving Female led Relationships. It was Queen Marisa Rudder, the founder of the Love and Obey FLR movement's social media and she had great advice on the subject in her 14 books. In her social media videos and books, I was encouraged as a Husband to start treating my wife as my Queen. I started to worship, serve and obey her. Something that I immediately felt was exactly what I have dreamed of for many years.
I would also like to thank Queen Marisa for the invaluable advice she gave to me personally by email. It helped an inexperienced husband whose greatest desire is to be a good submissive to my Dominating wife Queen Hanne. The more I read about female-led relationships in Marisa’s books, the more I realized that this is what I have been missing and that FLR is the optimal relationship for both the Man and the Woman.
I started asking Queen Hanne for permission to do things and do all the housework that she would let me do. At first she seemed surprised and uncertain when I asked permission to just lick her and permission to massage her feet. Before this we had a typical male-dominated vanilla marriage where she only let me take care of her when I wanted to. Although I have had strong submissive feelings ever since we were newlyweds, I had suppressed it for years and tried to live up to the socially ingrained idea that I had to be the boss and dominant both in bed and in everyday life.
But after I started to behave as a submissive man, and allow my deepest secret that I have always dreamed when it comes to women. As I allowed my inner desires to come out in the open, a gradual transformation took place toward my wife. Within a few weeks after we both read Marisa’s book Love and Obey, Real Men Worship Women, Chastity and Cuckolding, not only did I change, but she changed too. She used to be submissive but suddenly, she started behaving more and more dominant and bossy towards me. By Christmas I had really begun to feel like her loving but submissive husband. Soon I no longer needed to prove myself as her submissive husband. I had become the submissive in the relationship and she started more and more often to reprimand and discipline me both at home and even in public.
I still remember the strong feeling it was when she corrected me for the first time on a Christmas shopping trip and hit me on the bottom with the flat of her hand inside the store and some other young ladies chuckled to themselves when they saw how I immediately bowed my head and started to go behind her. When Queen Hanne saw that I was bright red in the face and with a growing bulge in my trousers, she burst out laughing before giving me a kiss. My heart overflowed with happiness and my submissive feelings became even stronger.
In the months after Christmas we have been on a rollercoaster ride that has been both amazingly strong, but also at times humiliating as I tried to control my male ego and tried to rise to the demands of a Female Led Marriage. But today there is no longer any doubt that my wife is the boss and I am her obedient submissive husband. I also find that I have quite naturally started to behave submissively towards all the ladies in our circle of friends and those we meet. When I used to want to start a discussion, I now allow myself to be reprimanded and put in my place by my wife and also by other ladies.
At home, Queen Hanne manages the house, decides about what to do with our money and everyday life in general. I do the dishes and keep the house tidy and do the tasks she tells me to do. There is something so sexually exciting about her domination. She has become so powerfully sexual. I want her 24/7 and now she can just put her foot in my crotch or on my face and say do it to yourself and I will cum within minutes. Another desire that grew in me, was my love for giving her oral satisfaction. But when we had regular intercourse, I usually had an involuntary had premature ejaculation after 3 to a maximum of 5 minutes.
So while I prefer to have her to myself, it quickly became clear that as a woman she deserves more than I can give her alone. So in the spring of 2022, I admitted to her that I will fully respect submitting to her even if she gets an outside man next door for sex. I also experienced that she came home and told me about someone who had set her up, which she had turned down. At first she was very against having outside men and she did not want to cuckold me. I saw cuckolding as something she only had to do if she felt like it and that I would then see it as a great honor. Once she started cuckolding me I even enjoyed being allowed to lick her clean after her sexual encounter. Because I love you her much and want her to get all the pleasure she deserves, and I encouraged her to make me her cuckold.
At this time I began to have problems with the fact that I got such a strong desire for her cuckolding me due to her dominance over me. I had to change underwear several times a day because I was leaking cum. The laundry was one of the few things Queen Hanne refused to let me do because she didn't trust me to do it well enough. Then one day she suddenly got angry and asked why I threw 5-6 boxers in the washing machine every day.
I had to humbly admit that it was because I leaked cum because as her submissive, I now have such a strong desire for her 24/7. She had then also experienced that I had ejaculated in bed without touching myself when I went down on her and licked her.
The day after that conversation, she came smiling and said sternly to me, “Since you leak as much semen as a wet slut, I have decided, Oddmund, that from now on you will use sanitary feminine pads during the day.” After that I felt she changed and became much more dominant towards me and I noticed that she started flirting with other men right in front of my face.
She has had a male friend for many years called "Ronny". I think he has always liked Hanne as more than just a friend. He is a physiotherapist. One day Queen Hanne suddenly said to me that she was going out to dinner with him after work in the late afternoon. I feel my heart rate rise and then I smiled and just said to her, “So nice.” Then I asked her to enjoy herself with him. That day, I sat at home feeling nervous until well into the evening. When Queen Hanne came home, I got to go straight down on her to make love to her. I immediately notice that her pussy was dripping wet and I asked her what she and "Ronny" did on their dinner date. She said, “We didn't sleep together.” But when I told that I noticed the musky smell and wetness on the inside of her thighs. She said, “Ronny offered to massage me if we stopped by his apartment.” I asked, "Is the massage why you were so wet when you got home?” She answered, “Yes, Oddmund. That's the reason.” At this point, I didn't dare to ask more about it. But later the massages have developed and now they train together and have sex together on a regular basis.
At first I tried to introduce a rule that they should only do it in his apartment. But one day when I got home his car was in our driveway. A note hung on my door saying that I had to go straight to the kitchen to clean up the mess that she and Ronny had made before I got home. The not also said that I had to go straight to bed in our room and that I also had to stay out of the guest room. When I passed the guest room I froze because I heard Queen Hanne moaning and crying out with pleasure and I knew she was obviously having an extremely good time with Ronny. I went straight to the kitchen and cleaned up and then I went to bed as she had told me to do. After a couple of hours, Hanne came into our room and looked at me seriously before she knelt next to me in bed. Listen carefully Oddmund. After our conversation about rules for where I can have sex with Ronny. I told him what you had said. Then he said something I have not been able to get out of my head. "So it is still Oddmund who decides at your house?” That's why I decided today to show both you and Ronny that I am the boss here at home. By letting "Ronny" fuck me senseless in the guest room, I will show both him and you that I can have sex wherever I want. So now you can choose to shut up, be my good submissive husband and just lick me clean or have the delusion that you have the authority to negotiate with me on this! I just bowed my head and asked her, “Can I please lick you Queen Hanne? Then I licked her clean as tenderly and submissively as I had never done before. After this moment, there was never any doubt that we had come to a no turning back point in our marriage.
Queen Hanne also has a good girl friend named Kari, whom she has known since high school. Kari is a lesbian and now my wife and her have girlfriend nights where I have to sleep in the guest room or am assigned tasks in our house or chores to clean up Kari's apartment.
Although "Hanne" is most often with her physiotherapist friend sexually, it was a very strong experience when she and her close lesbian friend "Kari" decided to let me be a submissive helper boy while they enjoyed themselves in our home.
I was told to stay in "Kari's" apartment for a whole weekend and only if "Kari" was satisfied with my house cleaning and laundry for several weekends to come would I be allowed to experience ejaculation with "Hanne" when I got home. When I got to "Kari's" entrance to her apartment, she just grinned and said that "Hanne" had given her the task of locking my manhood in a cage. I was so sexually aroused that "Kari" had to slap me both between the legs and my bottom several times to manage my erection and to place me in the cage. It was my first experience with the chastity cage. I have never before felt so vulnerable and totally in another woman's power as I did then. Even though she is a lesbian, she is the very image of a sexually attractive woman and besides "Hanne" she is the one I feel most weak around. She locked me in and said that in the coming weekends I would have the chance to show that I could earn ejaculation and pleasure with my wife. I must say that I felt she had a wicked smile on her face.
I washed and cleaned "Kari's" apartment like it was the last thing I had to do before doomsday. Afterwards, both my Queen "Hanne" and "Kari" have had many such weekends and evenings together. While I have been at your service and done as good a job as possible. In previous years, "Kari" and I have often argued because she has thought I have been a male chauvinistic pig and I have felt that she has thought of me as a competitor to her friend relationship with my wife "Hanne". But now I also submit to her as the dominant woman and friend of my wife that she is. I can hardly forget the first time I entered our living room and saw that "Hanne" lay trembling in lust while "Kari" performed for her orally. I could only sit down in the corner of the living room and watch in lust and admiration. She simply owned my wife."Kari" has always been an Alpha friend to my wife. I have often been in conflict with her. But now that has completely changed. Because after I saw how "Kari" dominated "Hanne" I also became a very submissive boy to "Hanne's" friend. Anything else would appear pathetic. So now I am naturally obedient and humbly submissive to both my wife and her friend. "Hanne" has given me clear notice that only if "Kari" is also satisfied with my housecleaning and housework in her apartment will I get sexual satisfaction here at home. "Kari" has also assisted my wife once in taking me from behind with a strapon.
Something "Hanne's" physiotherapist friend also did not long after I tried to get them to only have sex at his house. When "Hanne" once said I could lie next to them while they had sex, she lay on her back on top of me while "Ronny" fucked her. Experiencing my wife lying trembling and shaking with orgasm while a better man fucked and owned her was a powerful experience. After he had finished, "Hanne" sat on my face and ordered me to lick her clean. Which I did with pleasure and desire. As I did she pulled my legs up and said come on "Ronny". Take him hard. She then let "Ronny" take me from behind with her strapon until I got over myself. Then I couldn't stop myself from climaxing. Something they made a big fuss about because "Hanne" had also had a female ejaculation when "Ronny" had taken her on a beach in Portugal last autumn.
In the overall cuckolding experience, Ronny is the main one Queen Hanne has regularly sex with and they also went on a holiday week to Portugal together last autumn. I get to have sex with my wife sometimes when she is menstruating. Otherwise, I get to lick her and perform oral worship on her on a very regular basis. She also lets me masturbate and ejaculate usually by myself. She has also introduced me to pegging and she wears a strap on and has penetrative sex with me Oddmund, which makes me come very hard.
So things have changed a lot in the last year. But even though our marriage has become completely different, Queen Hanne shows a lot of love and makes room for date nights and date weekends where it's just the two of us. She says she loves me very much and that she will never replace me as her submissive good husband. Honestly, I have experienced more sexual satisfaction in marriage this past year in our Female Led Marriage than I did in the previous 25 years of our vanilla male dominated marriage. I love my Queen more than anything on this earth. I am so proud that I get to support her, serve her and be her obedient and submissive husband. Female led life makes me feel like the luckiest man in the world. The only thing I regret is that I did not submit to my wife when we were newly married. So many thanks to Queen Marisa and many thanks to all strong women who deserve to be at the top and who take the step to control their relationships! To every husband in a loving Female Led Relationship I would say, “You are so lucky!”